Wednesday, May 13, 2009 | 7:48 PM | 0 comments
Characters: Classmate A(guy), Classmate B(girl), Classmate C(guy), Friend 1(girl), Friend 2(girl), Friend 3(girl)Brief description:
Classmate A: uh, classmate?
Classmate B: i like her because i was once scolded by her and find her saying reasonable things so i would tell her my worries and problems i face so she would give me advice.
Classmate C: uh, close to friend 1 and 2?
Friend 1: close and good friend;?
Friend 2: close and good friend?
Friend 3: from another class but same primary school; quite close. will get very angry if asked to do something but in the end, 白费心机.
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How would you actually feel if your friends keep you in the dark for a very long time?
pissedddddddd?
sad?
ok, lets just say that this 'thing' happened to a friend of mine and she's really sad about it. now, my 'role' is this friend of mine. lets just name her Jane, kays? ok.
Friend 1 lost something that she needs for a subject in class. After her thing was found, she told Jane that it was classmate C who took it. Jane: "ok, should have expected it". Haha, dont be fooled, this is not what really happened. It's not as simple as you think.
After months, Classmate A told Jane the truth. After that, she felt really sad because Classmate A told Friend 1 and 2 not to tell her the truth, and all this while, she was kept in the dark. Jane: "Am i not a good friend enough to even know the truth? Would i be pissed off if i did? NO! So why?" That night when she knew she was kept in the dark for very long, she decided to tell Friend 3 and Classmate B. However, she did not have the chance to tell Classmate B, but she did tell Friend 3. The reason why Classmate A didnt want to tell Jane the truth is because he thinks that Jane is really close to that person who took Friend 1 things. Jane IS close to that person, but not as close as Friend 1 and Friend 2. This actually shows Jane that Friend 1 and 2 is more close to Classmate A, and Jane thinks that they'd better be off with him than her. Therefore, Jane didnt really hang out with Friend 1 and Friend 2 already. ( Why didnt she? Read more to find out.)
Friend 1 and 2 offered to go celebrate at this "place" because MYE is over. Jane decided not to go. They persuaded her, and she needed to really think about it so she said: "see first". Not long later, Friend 3 called to ask if Jane wanted to go home with her. At that time, Jane forgotten that she promised Friend 1 and 2 that she'll consider going out with them. So she asked Friend 3 to wait for her. It was until Friend 2 asked Jane again whether she wanted to go, Jane then realised that she asked Friend 3 to wait for her. Knowing Friend 3 personality really well, she knew that Friend 3 would slaughter her alive if she didnt keep her promise. So Jane told Friend 2 that she promised Friend 3 that she'll go home with her. Jane wanted to keep her promise but she is abit avoiding Friend 1 and 2 so that she can really, REALLY think about it.
find it familier? yeah, that's what YOU should be thinking, yea? Something like that happened in 1GR too, right? Im not saying this happened to any of us. Just General.
Someone told me that Friends are to comfort you. But what if you're friends did this? How would you react?